I have a group of girls I assembled in a Facebook group chat... we all lost our babies within a few days of each other in December, and we were all in our 3rd trimester.
I love getting to chat with these women, because we are going through the same milestones together. We get each other and can share anything with no judgement. We wrestle with questions like... When are you going to start trying again? Has your cycle returned yet? Is it wonky? Are you going to find out gender next time around? Do you want the same or different gender than your baby you lost? Are you going to ask for more scans next time? What kind of urn are you getting? What should I put on the headstone? How are you feeling today? How are things with your husband? How are your other children doing? Etc. And you know what... It's not fair. It's not fair we have to think about these things now. Everything has a new weight. Everything is different now. And none of us want to be here. But we are. And we will support each other. Even if it is not fair.
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